Building and Scaling Your Nonprofit: Lessons from Shoes That Fit's National Growth

When nonprofit leaders talk about growth, they often focus on fundraising.

More donors.

More grants.

More revenue.

But what if sustainable growth isn't primarily about raising more money?

What if it's about building stronger relationships?

In a recent episode of The Influential Nonprofit, I sat down with Amy Fast, Executive Director of Shoes That Fit, a national nonprofit that provides new athletic shoes to children experiencing homelessness and low-income circumstances. Today, the organization serves children in all 50 states and has provided shoes to more than two million kids.

What struck me most about our conversation wasn't just the scale of their impact.

It was how they got there.

The answer wasn't a single major donor, a viral campaign, or a lucky break.

It was patience.

It was partnership.

And it was playing the long game.

Why Sustainable Nonprofit Growth Takes Time

In a world that celebrates overnight success, nonprofit leaders often feel pressure to grow quickly.

We want the major donor.

The corporate sponsor.

The transformational grant.

We want results now.

But as Amy shared, many of Shoes That Fit's most successful partnerships took years to develop.

Their relationship with major corporate partners didn't begin with massive commitments. It started with shared values, small opportunities, and trust built over time.

That's an important lesson for nonprofit leaders.

Strong partnerships aren't transactions.

They're relationships.

And relationships take time.

The Story Behind Shoes That Fit

More than 30 years ago, Shoes That Fit began with one simple act of compassion.

The founder heard about a young boy who was coming to school wearing shoes so small that his toes were literally curled underneath his feet.

She had no large budget.

No corporate sponsors.

No national platform.

What she had was determination.

She mobilized her local community, gathered support, and helped provide shoes for 40 children.

Those first 40 pairs of shoes launched a movement that now serves more than 200,000 children annually.

But here's the important part:

The mission was never really about shoes.

As Amy explained throughout our conversation, the shoes are simply the vehicle.

The real mission is helping children feel valued, included, and supported.

Why Mission Clarity Makes Fundraising Easier

One thing I love about Shoes That Fit is their focus.

They do one thing exceptionally well.

They provide properly fitted, brand-name athletic shoes to children who need them.

Many nonprofits feel pressure to expand their programs over time.

The thinking goes something like this:

"If we're helping with shoes, maybe we should provide clothing too."

"Maybe we should add school supplies."

"Maybe we should create another program."

But mission drift often creates complexity.

Instead, Shoes That Fit has stayed remarkably focused.

That clarity makes it easier for donors, volunteers, schools, and corporate partners to understand exactly what they do and why it matters.

And when people understand your mission quickly, they're far more likely to support it.

The Secret to Building Corporate Partnerships That Last

One of the most valuable insights Amy shared was how her organization approaches corporate partnerships.

Too many nonprofits approach companies with a pitch.

Amy approaches them with curiosity.

Instead of asking:

"What can this company give us?"

She asks:

"What is this company trying to accomplish?"

That shift changes everything.

Successful partnerships aren't one-size-fits-all.

Every organization has different goals, values, and priorities.

Some want employee engagement opportunities.

Some want community impact.

Some want volunteer experiences.

Some want cause alignment.

The strongest nonprofit partnerships happen when both sides listen first.

5 Lessons Nonprofits Can Learn About Partnership Building

If you're looking to grow your nonprofit through strategic partnerships, Amy's approach offers a powerful blueprint:

  1. Start with relationships, not requests.

  2. Listen before presenting solutions.

  3. Focus on shared values.

  4. Customize opportunities instead of using a cookie-cutter approach.

  5. Build trust before expecting significant investment.

These principles may sound simple, but they're surprisingly rare.

And they're often what separates short-term sponsorships from long-term partnerships.

Why Donors Stay Connected to Your Mission

Another insight that stood out was Amy's approach to donor stewardship.

Her team personally calls new donors.

They create opportunities for supporters to see the impact of their gifts.

They share stories directly from schools and children.

Most importantly, they lead with gratitude.

As Amy shared:

"You say thank you seven times before you make another ask."

Whether that exact number is right for every organization isn't the point.

The point is that donors want to know their generosity matters.

People don't give because they're looking for another transaction.

They give because they want to make a difference.

The more connected they feel to the impact, the stronger that relationship becomes.

The Real Problem Isn't Shoes

One of my favorite moments in the conversation was when we discussed what shoes actually represent.

The shoes themselves are important.

But they're not the whole story.

For many children, shoes mean:

  • Confidence

  • Dignity

  • Belonging

  • Access to sports

  • Participation in school

  • Feeling seen and valued

The presenting problem is footwear.

The deeper issue is opportunity.

That's why this work resonates so deeply with donors and volunteers.

They're not simply funding shoes.

They're investing in children.

Why Collaboration Is the Future of Nonprofit Impact

Amy also shared something I believe every nonprofit leader needs to hear:

You don't have to solve every problem yourself.

In fact, you probably shouldn't.

Instead of expanding endlessly into new services, Shoes That Fit partners with organizations that provide school supplies, tutoring, food assistance, and other resources.

That allows them to stay focused on their expertise while still helping children access broader support.

The nonprofit sector doesn't need more silos.

It needs more collaboration.

When organizations work together, everyone wins.

Most importantly, the people we serve receive better outcomes.

Playing the Long Game in Nonprofit Leadership

Throughout our conversation, one theme kept emerging:

Patience.

Whether Amy was talking about raising a daughter, building a nonprofit, cultivating donors, or developing partnerships, the message was consistent.

Growth takes time.

Trust takes time.

Impact takes time.

But when you stay committed to the mission and continue investing in relationships, remarkable things happen.

Today, Shoes That Fit serves children across all 50 states.

Not because they chased shortcuts.

But because they consistently showed up, listened, adapted, and stayed focused on what mattered most.

Build Relationships Before You Build Revenue

If you're trying to grow your nonprofit, don't start by asking how to raise more money.

Start by asking how to build stronger relationships.

The strongest fundraising strategies are built on trust.

The strongest partnerships are built on shared values.

And the strongest organizations are built one relationship at a time.

Because sustainable growth isn't created by a single campaign.

It's created by years of showing up, listening, and serving people well.

That's how missions grow.

And that's how real impact scales.

Maryanne Dersch